Donna Speaks:

Aa speaker, I share personal insights from my caregiving experience to help others prepare for the complexities of aging and end-of-life issues. I am a member of NSAOhio, the Association for Professional Speakers, a chapter of the National Speakers Association.

As a lifelong communicator (I gave my first big speech in the 9th grade!), my career in radio and television and my work as a funeral celebrant have prepared me to speak to groups of all sizes about the complexities of caregiving and preparation for the elder years.

No gathering is too big or too small to discuss the importance of preparation as the golden years approach. We can ready ourselves as well as help those we love (our parents, grandparents and beloved elders) to be ready.

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The Blessings and Benefits of Preparation: Why Power of Attorney Matters

What happens when an aging parent needs help, but no one has the legal authority to step in?

In this heartfelt and practical talk, Donna Stothfang shares the story of her family’s struggle to care for their fiercely independent mother as memory loss began to change her ability to live safely on her own. Through humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom, Donna explores why Power of Attorney matters, how families often avoid these difficult conversations, and the emotional and logistical challenges that can arise when plans are not in place.

Audience members will leave with a clearer understanding of:

  • the different types of Power of Attorney

  • why early preparation matters

  • common family obstacles and misunderstandings

  • how planning ahead can protect both seniors and their loved ones

More than a legal discussion, this talk is a compassionate conversation about aging, family, responsibility, and the power of preparation.

Dementia and the 5th Commandment: Honoring Our Parents as They Age

What does it truly mean to “honor your father and mother” when caregiving becomes difficult, exhausting, and emotionally complex?

In this deeply personal talk, Donna Stothfang reflects on her family’s experience caring for her mother through dementia and decline. With warmth, humor, and vulnerability, Donna explores the intersection of caregiving, faith, dignity, grief, and family responsibility.

Rather than offering easy answers, this presentation speaks honestly about the realities many caregivers quietly face:

  • role reversal

  • frustration and guilt

  • protecting dignity

  • sibling dynamics

  • grief before loss

  • finding grace for both our loved ones and ourselves

Grounded in the Fifth Commandment yet welcoming to all audiences, this talk offers encouragement, recognition, and compassion for anyone walking the difficult road of caring for an aging parent or loved one.

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